A real relationship doesn't properly begin until the NRE burns away. That's when you have to start dealing with this person as an all-around human being, replete with irritating little habits. When disillusion sets in, love can begin.

Anthony D. Ravenscroft
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In a relationship, things should be moving along smoothly and growing in a positive direction. However, when your relationship ends, it may feel as though you have nothing to fall back on. You have been burned by this person and have no love to fall back on. It is hard to get over a broken heart and even harder to find a replacement after a person has left.

Source: Polyamory: Roadmaps For The Clueless And Hopeful: An Introduction On Polyamory

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